35th Milestone

Backdate 20th September 2013

The other day I was looking at my reflection when I caught something winking in my hair. I peered closer and behold! It was a strand of white hair. That to me, was a sign that 'old' is just around the corner. As if I needed to be reminded of my 35th milestone.

At 35, I considered myself officially middle-aged. If we were to take life expectancy at an average of 70, I would already be midway through. I thought now would be a good time to give myself a pep talk.

So, at 35, how has my life been so far? Looking back, I haven't achieved anything spectacular or fantastic or awesome, in any case. But I have my family and loved ones around with me. My mom, cousins, sibling, in-laws and of course my wonderful husband and kids.

I also have a small, but amazing and supportive group of gal pals in my life, often offering encouragements and  patiently listening to my endless tirades of complaints during our gossip sessions.Circumstances at work has also given me the opportunity to move on to a new posting with new responsibilities.

I have also re-started writing again, and more often recently. This was one of the many hobbies that got neglected after responsibilities set in one after another upon adulthood.

And I am thankful. Thankful for these and many more that is in my life. For all the laughters and love, the smiles and happiness, the hugs and listening ears, the friendships that stayed throughout and the new ones forged, the opportunities given and kindness shown, and all the other little things big and small.

In the coming years of 35 and beyond, I hope to learn to be a better person; to criticise and complain less, and to be more appreciative and positive.

Many more white hairs will be a-sprouting along the years to come, and I shall look forward to growing old in grace and with a smile on my face.

Another year older, another year wiser.
Happy birthday to me.  :)